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Daily Shift 174: You can't people please your way into feeling loved

Celeste The Therapist

Published
June 6, 2026
Duration
3:30
Summary source
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Last updated
Jun 24, 2026

Discusses self improvement, health, mental.

Summary

SHOW NOTES People pleasing often starts as a strategy for getting love and staying connected. If I'm easy enough, helpful enough, agreeable enough — they'll love me. But it never actually works. Because the love you earn through performance never feels like the love you were looking for. In today's episode, Celeste explains why people pleasing and genuine…

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SHOW NOTES People pleasing often starts as a strategy for getting love and staying connected. If I'm easy enough, helpful enough, agreeable enough — they'll love me. But it never actually works. Because the love you earn through performance never feels like the love you were looking for. In today's episode, Celeste explains why people pleasing and genuine love are fundamentally incompatible — and what it actually takes to feel truly loved. Today's shift: Identify one relationship where you've be

Themes

  • self improvement
  • health
  • mental
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