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Daily Shift 172: People pleasing is not about other people — it's about your fear

Celeste The Therapist

Published
May 31, 2026
Duration
2:54
Summary source
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Last updated
Jun 24, 2026

Discusses self improvement, health, mental.

Summary

People pleasing feels like it's about being considerate. About keeping the peace. About being a good person. But at its core it has nothing to do with other people at all. It's about your fear. Fear of rejection, conflict, withdrawal, not being enough. In today's episode, Celeste gets to the real root of people pleasing — and why naming the fear underneat…

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Show notes

People pleasing feels like it's about being considerate. About keeping the peace. About being a good person. But at its core it has nothing to do with other people at all. It's about your fear. Fear of rejection, conflict, withdrawal, not being enough. In today's episode, Celeste gets to the real root of people pleasing — and why naming the fear underneath it is the only thing that actually changes it. Today's shift: Name the specific fear that drives your people pleasing — and get honest about

Themes

  • self improvement
  • health
  • mental
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