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"I'm Fine": When It's Armour, When It's Honest, and How to Tell

Stillness in the Storms

Published
May 3, 2026
Duration
21:38
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Last updated
Oct 11, 2026

Discusses health, mental, religion, society, culture.

Summary

When you say I'm fine, is it armour or is it honest? Both, depending on the day. And sometimes fine is genuinely the right answer, because not every conversation is one you want.Every carer, every encounter, however small. I take notice about one time in twenty. There is nothing wrong with the armour. My nan had a way of dealing with people who came in mo…

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When you say I'm fine, is it armour or is it honest? Both, depending on the day. And sometimes fine is genuinely the right answer, because not every conversation is one you want.Every carer, every encounter, however small. I take notice about one time in twenty. There is nothing wrong with the armour. My nan had a way of dealing with people who came in moaning. And there is the master whose final teaching came years later, once the student was ready to hear it. Try a different answer once and se

Themes

  • health
  • mental
  • religion
  • society
  • culture