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Gates, Not Thorns: Are Your Boundaries a Prison?

Stillness in the Storms

Published
September 6, 2026
Duration
18:30
Summary source
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Last updated
Oct 11, 2026

Discusses health, mental, religion, society, culture.

Summary

Support Steven's work. Treat him to a coffee stevenwebb.ukAre your boundaries keeping you safe, or keeping you stuck? I have never liked the word. This week a reader called Katherine gave me a better one: gates, not thorns.I have carers in my life 24 hours a day, so I could not build walls even if I wanted to. I had to grow the strength to let the world i…

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Support Steven's work. Treat him to a coffee stevenwebb.ukAre your boundaries keeping you safe, or keeping you stuck? I have never liked the word. This week a reader called Katherine gave me a better one: gates, not thorns.I have carers in my life 24 hours a day, so I could not build walls even if I wanted to. I had to grow the strength to let the world in instead, and that is where I stand on boundaries. A red line between two people is healthy. It is an agreement, not a wall. A rulebook the wh

Themes

  • health
  • mental
  • religion
  • society
  • culture